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Pick women up anyway you know how. It's important to tread carefully when trying to pick a woman up at work. Not only does a man need to worry about harassment charges, but if things go wrong each of you may be left feeling uncomfortable around the other. Before attempting a pickup line or moving forward with flirting, be sure it's the right thing to do and at the right time. Say hello as you walk past her at work. This is the first step to making it known that you are interested. Be sure to say hello each morning or a few times throughout the day. This short and sweet exchange can be conducted appropriately as you pass the woman in the hallway, in the employee lounge or possibly in the elevator. Smile at her. Make it known that you are smiling at her and not a person standing nearby. Do not go overboard, just a quick and simple smile will do. Women do not want to feel threatened in any way. She may surprise you and smile back. Compliment her on a job well done. Perhaps the two of you are working  in the same office or on a project together. Do not go overboard on compliments, but make it known that you respect the work the woman is doing or has done. Ask her out for a bite to eat. It is common for coworkers to enjoy a quick lunch together. Consider inviting a group of coworkers, which may make the situation less tense. Wait a few days, or even longer, and ask her out again. A lunch routine may develop between the two of you. Request a date. Be sure she realizes you're not talking about the usual lunch date. Take into consideration the time and place to ask her out. A private phone call or even an e-mail may be appropriate in this situation. First, do not hesitate to approach a woman that you meet. The setting could be anywhere, from a retail store to a bar or even online. As soon as you see someone you like, go out and take a chance. If you hesitate, you will lose confidence and perhaps even alarm her into thinking you’re a stalker instead of a cool single guy. Another obvious tip that is unfortunately forgotten by many nervous singles today is to smile. Never approach a prospective mate with an intense or focused disposition. (This just screams “psycho”) When dating women, make sure your smile is warm and genuine. Show some teeth once in a while, since the closed smile indicates distance. Be friendly but at the same time, be interesting. Kissing up to a woman will not get you anywhere. Have confidence in yourself that you are just as appealing and attractive as she is. Make the conversation memorable. Don’t be afraid to have fun, to joke, to tease (in good humor) and flirt. Experience in dating women always helps, so start talking to more women in general. Talk to men and women of all ages and start mastering the art of friendly conversation. Build up a network of friends and acquaintances. Even if you don’t meet someone right away, an attractive friend of a friend may eventually cross paths with you. Here’s an interesting question: what topics should you broach when dating women? Start with small talk when you first introduce yourself. This can be something relatively mundane, such as a shared experience or an observation of what is currently taking place. As you become more comfortable with each other’s company, try to expand your topics of conversation into common interests. Sometimes a woman’s appearance can state a great deal about her interests. Become a good listener. If you really want to make a new friend, start asking questions about her views, her lifestyle and her thoughts (but nothing too invasive to start with). Your genuine interest will get her talking and before you know it, you will have a new friend. If you both share common interests and core values, you may even feel a strong connection. The secret to successful dating with women is to learn the other person and react to what she is saying with wit, genuine interest and confidence. Relationship coaching can help you in respect to that!